This is a redflag, numerous commentators were worried.
What's a wedding without a cake and some fun? Well, fun is what this newly married couple claimed it was when the groom abruptly smashed a three-tier cake on the bride's face after she tried to wipe some onto his. The internet however didn't see what was so hilarious about it and actually went after the groom for being so aggressive.
In a clip posted by @Kelsboyd3 which has more than 2.8 million times on TikTok, the bride can be seen playfully wiping cake on her husband's face. As she takes a step back from him, he grabs the entire three-tier cake and smashes it into the side of her face, with the impact causing her to stumble a few steps into a nearby chair. Instead of seeing it as a playful exchange as the couple claimed it was, users were concerned if the groom had any anger and aggression issues. This reaction was a clear red flag to many.
One user wrote, "DIVORCE ON THE NEXT LEVEL." While another said, "That's not just aggressive but so embarrassing??? If he's comfortable doing that in front of all her friends and fam... scary." A third exclaimed: "Ohhhhh HELLLL NO!!!! Major RED FLAG." Some made finer observations, "You can literally see his mood change to anger and he THREW that cake, leave him sis he's abusive,"
The bride however seeing the negative reactions was quick to post another video of them laughing it out to dismiss people. She wrote, "this is us and it was funny to everyone, I’m sorry that you have a different sense of humour," she even included hashtags #nodomestic and #coupleswhoplaystay. The internet was still not convinced, "Girl we believe you love him. It’s the other way around for us. This is scary because that's not love. No matter how many ‘couple photos’ you post," a user wrote, while another said, "as long as you’re happy, that’s what matters."