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I'm A Grown Woman, Not An Inexperienced Girl: If You Can't Deal With A Real Woman, Leave Right Now

I'm A Grown Woman, Not An Inexperienced Girl: If You Can't Deal With A Real Woman, Leave Right Now

I have no time for mind games. I won't settle for a man who's immature. I know my worth. I'm a strong woman.

Did you think that if you ignore me, I’d chase you to gain your love? I’m a woman, not an inexperienced girl looking for mere fun. You acted like you don’t care for me. You thought I’d come to you with utter devotion if you did that. You thought I’d shower you with love.

But darling, that’s just manipulation, and it’s far from attractive. It’s a turn-off. It’s disrespectful. And I don’t want that in my life.

Why play the game, when you might as well have been honest and won my heart? Oh wait, that’s the game, isn’t it? You wanted ME to win your heart. That’s odd. Because I thought I’d already won your heart. And you, mine. Isn’t that why we’re together?

I thought you’d be real with me. That way, we could have loved each other and treated each other right. Why would you want to be dishonest? It just pushed me away.

Of course, I left. What did you expect? That I’d still love you? Why would I ever be intimate with a man who likes to play mind games? I’d rather invest my energy in building my own life.

I want a man who can be real. Let’s have complete honesty. Let’s talk dreams, let’s talk fears. Let’s talk turn-ons, let’s talk turn-offs. Let’s peel our layers, let’s dive deep. Because I’m not a woman who’ll settle for a man who wants to keep things surface-level!

I want a man who loves to show the world that he loves me. Let’s spoil each other. Let’s even show a public display of affection. Let’s be so good together that the world wants to see the display. Because I’m not a woman who’ll settle for a man who wants to hide our relationship.

I want a man who WANTS to commit. Let’s have a commitment of time. Let’s have a commitment to healing ourselves through love. Let’s have a commitment to being one unit. Because I’m not a woman who’ll settle for a man just because he chooses to be with me for the sake of it.

I want a man who values me. Let’s make each other a top priority. Let’s show each other how much we mean to one another. Let’s respect each other. Let’s grow together. Let’s nurture one another. Because I’m not a woman who’ll settle for a man to whom I’m just an option.

I want a man who is mature. Let’s be true to ourselves. Let’s accept responsibility for our actions. Let’s hold ourselves accountable for the promises we make. Let’s vow to continually work on ourselves. Because I’m not a woman who’ll settle for a man who fears change that comes from within.

Know this. I’m fulfilled all on my own. There’s no gaping hole you need to fill. So, I’m only looking for a partner to go through life’s ups and downs with. I know my worth, I know your worth. Because I’m a strong woman.