×
Neighbor Gets Annoyed at Kids Playing Outside Early Morning | “I’ll Be Calling the Council”

Neighbor Gets Annoyed at Kids Playing Outside Early Morning | “I’ll Be Calling the Council”

Elaine Swann, an etiquette expert, suggests that it's best to talk about this in person as this is a delicate issue.

Residences with children are often bustling with noise, which may or may not be appreciated by all neighbors alike. Sometimes, especially in the mornings during the vacation season, it may be of extreme inconvenience to have children yelling and playing at the crack of dawn. A Facebook user recently complained about it on a post and wrote, "Anyone else have neighbours that let their twin toddlers out from between 6.45am-8am every single morning?"

The user went on to explain that though they "completely appreciate" the summer holidays some neighbors work in shift patterns. "Yes, I've tried knocking on their door but had no answer," the user justified adding that it would be alright if this happened once in a while or even after 9 am but "before 8am every morning is getting silly now. I will be knocking on their door again at some point today & if still no luck, I'll be calling the council."



 

This post led to a discussion between people and they have multiple perspectives on the issue at hand. Some said that children should be encouraged to spend time outside because being outside is definitely preferable to being inside. Kids generate noise, that much is obvious. Although children can provide their parents the greatest joy, they might occasionally interfere with other people's daily life. 

Some commenters on the post believed that while children cannot be blamed, parents should take responsibility and have courtesy and respect for other people. Some people also shared how their parents managed the noise that they made as kids while playing outside considering the needs that their neighbors may have.

Image Source: Getty Images | K Neville
Image Source: Getty Images | K Neville

 

This is a situation that many may have come across. Elaine Swann, a lifestyle and etiquette expert and the founder of the Swann School of Protocol, told Martha Stewart what to do as a solution in these scenarios, as per boredpanda. She suggests that it's best to talk about this in person as this is a delicate issue. She advised going over to the neighbor, informing them about the noise, and having a brief, direct chat. She asks to "leave out the icky and keep it matter-of-fact" when we are about to confront someone. After then, it's crucial to present a remedy to the issue. Asking to have the noise level controlled during that time can be all that is necessary. “If the person is practicing music, say, ‘Hey, it’s great that you’re talented, and great that you’re learning, but if you ever aren’t quite sure about the noise factor, here’s my contact information. Call me anytime and I’ll let you know,'” Swann added. “This way, the person will feel as though they are connected with you. They’ll know where you live and how to reach you.”

Image Source: Getty Images | Imgorthand
Image Source: Getty Images | Imgorthand

 

The most important thing is to remain calm and attempt to imagine yourself in your neighbor's position. Swann advised that while speaking to an individual, consider how you might feel if this was spoken to you. "This is what really helps us to craft our statement to them,” Swann explained. “When we think from that perspective, then we won’t go to anger. Our goal is to dwell together in peace.”

Long-lasting conflicts might occur as a consequence of our overly emotional and angry behavior toward our neighbors. We might publicly embarrass them, or even threaten them because of their actions without first attempting to resolve the issue. To ensure that everyone lives in peace, it's crucial to show consideration toward your neighbors. Additionally, the more problems we can settle on our own, the better.

References:

https://www.boredpanda.com/neighbor-complains-children-playing-outside-early-morning

https://www.facebook.com/SpottedQuedgeleyKingswayHardwicke/posts

https://www.boredpanda.com/neighbor-complains-children-playing-outside-early-morning

Representative Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Yellow Dog Productions