The bride shared the story on TikTok and other users felt that it was actually for the best
Finding your partner, with whom you are in a committed relationship with, on dating sites can be a heartbreaking experience. It was especially traumatic for TikTok user @leela_li who got to know about this days before her wedding. The woman took to the platform to announce the end of her engagement after catching her ex-fiance on a dating site, reported the Daily Star.
In the video, she explains how she canceled the event that was expecting 101 guests after finding out that her fiance was using dating apps. She then spoke about how her family didn't understand where she was coming from and judged her for her decision to end the relationship. “I actually had some family members judge me, left and right because I couldn’t exactly give out the entire story as to what happened. It was a big wedding. Wasn’t just a small little get-together, I had 101 people on the invites from all over the United States. Clearly, it was no picnic for me either when I lost a ton of money and couldn’t go through with an actual wedding, like, hello?!," she said, reported the Daily Star.
The user then described how she discovered her fiancé's secret. “I started seeing some red flags, so I started searching. I log on to my computer and I see there’s stuff in the recycle bin so of course, I click on it," she said and revealed what she saw. She would apparently find pictures - that did not contain his face - that were used on dating apps. She quickly recognized her bedsheets in the background. She explained that the sheets were fairly new so the images were taken recently. The video went viral and shockingly, many could relate to her story. "Yep. 100% my story!! Except I married him and stayed ten years. I am so proud of you girl. Thank frigging god you left. GOOD!" a user said, while another commented, “This is so common it’s not even funny, you are one of the few who was able to catch it”. A third wrote, “You saved yourself from wasting years of your life on a person who wouldn’t have been committed to you," reported the Daily Star.