The pain she has faced nearly broke her soul. And yet, she won't let the baggage of that lessen her immense love for you. It will instead make your relationship stronger.
It is not always as easy to spot the woman who will not break your heart because she may often seem broken. She is often the most misunderstood of the lot. But the truth is, the sensitivity she has comes from the pain and trauma she's faced. It has only served to make her stronger. She will never hurt you the way she's been hurt by others.
She knows the pain of being used by someone she deeply cared about, and that is exactly why she will ensure that you never feel the same. She's the guiding light out of your dark tunnel. She is not the one to leave you stranded, because she will want to be the shoulder you lean on when you need it. And she never uses your secrets against you.
She'll support you because she knows what it's like to be mocked. "You're not good enough." "You'll never achieve your dreams." "You can't even do simple things right, how will you ever get anywhere?" It's all she's ever heard. Others have beaten her self-esteem to a pulp and now, she doesn't know if she has the confidence to get through any more harsh criticism. But it is because of this that she never wants you to feel worthless. She's right by your side, as she encourages you to reach your dreams.
When she senses your insecurities, she will ensure it's never used against you. Hers have been picked at enough and she's drowning in a chasm of vulnerabilities. But she won't let your insecurities take a hold on your life. And instead, the relationship you share with her will make you feel secure. You won't even notice that everything she does to motivate you or the love that she shows will slowly melt away your worries. When you're with her, you'll feel like the best version of yourself.
She'll fight to make the relationship work. She knows first-hand what a lack of effort can do in a relationship. She's seen what happens when both partners choose silence over talking it out. She realized that the unspoken words ate away at her and killed a piece of her. So, she'll never let you go to bed angry. She'll never let the pain from a fight or the lack of talking rot the fragile thread that holds you two together.
She gives you space when you need it. Every other partner she had presumed to own her life. Any time she wanted to be on her own or with her loved ones, they called her selfish. They never gave her the space she needed to collect her thoughts and revel in the silence. She was smothered and it strained her relationship with others. Having been through that, she respects your boundaries. You never have to worry about constantly spending time with her because she knows you love her but that you need some time alone too.
She'll love you intensely. She's been controlled, mocked, and treated like an option. She's never experienced true love from her partners. And yet, her heart is bursting with it. It may feel extremely intense but that's just because she wants to make sure that you never feel unloved the way she did. She shows her love in the way that she thinks is right. It's her kind of love that will make you smile at random moments and look forward to going home to her.
She may be "broken" but she's like a beautiful vase that's been fixed with golden patches of strength and love. She survived her pain, but she will make sure you never go through that pain. It's what makes her a real woman.