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6 Essential Ingredients That Will Help You Achieve A Stable And Long Lasting Relationship

6 Essential Ingredients That Will Help You Achieve A Stable And Long Lasting Relationship

We all dream of a happily ever after. Every relationship can grow into a healthy and lasting one if partners give importance to these components.

It is normal for every relationship to go through some rough patches. There will also come a point where you feel like giving up, but when you know deep in your heart that the relationship is worth fighting for, the willingness to work through those tough times is what will help you overcome it together. But there are a few important things to keep in mind to make this possible.

1. Forgiveness

Mistakes and slip-ups are part and parcel of every relationship. After all, we're only human. Sometimes it may be something trivial, but sometimes, it also may have broken your heart. It is important to remember that nobody's perfect. But this should be no excuse to overlook grave errors or intentional sabotage. Forgiving each other will give both the people involved a chance to prove their love and show how much they value the relationship.

According to Psychalive, couples who practice forgiveness are likely to enjoy a longer and more satisfying romantic relationship. It will surely repair and resolve the issues between you and your partner in a positive and healthy way.

2. Communication

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When you have a disagreement with your partner, you should feel comfortable voicing it. You should let your partner know your concerns as soon as possible as it will clear the air faster. It is not just in the case of a fight but letting your partner know that you appreciate them is also necessary in a relationship. Open communication channels make way for stronger bonds between partner. "Communication in relationships, at its core, is about connecting and using your verbal, written and physical skills to fulfill your partner’s needs. It’s not about making small talk. It’s about understanding your partner’s point of view, offering support and letting your partner know you are their #1 fan," says Author Tony Robbins.

3. Trust and faithfulness

A stable and loving relationship often involves two people who are completely honest with each other. They trust their relationship and have absolute confidence in opening up their thoughts regardless of how hurtful it maybe for them. Therefore, having a transparent relationship with your partner will ensure the longevity of your relationship. "The sense of security and predictability that comes with trust makes us feel good about our partner and believe our relationship has long term potential," quotes Psychology Today. However, the lack of trust in your relationship can lead to emotional highs and lows, resulting in an unstable relationship.

4. Intimacy

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Partners who love each other should be connected sexually and emotionally. Satisfying each other in these areas narrows the gap between the two people and makes them closer physically and mentally. Therefore, it is important to understand each other's expectations regarding intimacy. Expressing this to each other and working out what is suitable for both will help couples maintain a healthy relationship.

5. Humor

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Sharing a laugh together may not sound like a big deal but a good sense of humor can do wonders to your relationship. According to a study, humor is fundamental to every relationship as it has a positive impact and contributes to satisfaction. While having a sense of humor is great, making hurtful comments and laughing at your partner will not help your relationship. An individual should make sure that they laugh with their partner and not at their partner.

6. Spending quality time

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It is not necessary for partners to have the same interests or hobbies. However, spending quality time with each other is essential for any relationship. It can be a movie night with your partner or even cuddling together on the couch. Giving time to each other can help you have open conversations, make future plans and even resolve issues. Giving time to your partner is essential for the growth of the relationship.

References:

https://www.psychalive.org/forgiveness-the-secret-to-a-healthy-relationship/
https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/key-communication-relationships/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/so-happy-together/201705/do-you-trust-your-partner
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/196912/intimacy-the-art-relationships
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/humor-sapiens/201811/how-humor-can-change-your-relationship
https://www.degruyter.com/view/j/humr.2011.24.issue-4/humr.2011.025/humr.2011.025.xml
https://www.bustle.com/p/7-signs-your-relationship-wont-last-based-on-how-you-your-partner-spend-your-time-together-3194556

Disclaimer: This article is based on facts collated from different sources. The views expressed here are those of the writer.